Ditto. It's easier to GAL with NC! This thing of us being together sometimes, and not others is hard. As you know with my birthday party - it's like, well we're together, but not really, or are we, or aren't we - how should I feel?
Remember to wait 24/48 hrs!~ Your feelings will pass. I'm sure it's hard to be independent when you can't do your usual things like riding the horse.
Feeling anger is normal and probably good - there's a lot of pain over their abandoning us. I feel it all the time - like, hey I'm glad we're in MC, and we're getting closer. But then you go back to YOUR APT or avoid MY BIRTHDAY. UGH>
Remember even when you;re back together you will have to tolerate your aloneness at times so time to do something nice for yourself at home - read a book? Take a bath? Hang in there.
