I don't get the impression she wants to do it, but I think she's comfortable with things the way they are. As for me, I am patiently waiting on things. Any suggestions on how to proceed with the wife?
Jumpy, I can't remember if OM was still on the scene. I remember everything else about your sitch.
W will always be comfortable with the way things are. Why shouldn't she be? You are filling her EN's right now, and if OM is still on the scene he will be too.
If you see you guys reconciling by continuing what you are doing then stay the course. If not then you have nothing to lose ... shake it up a little ... just like a snow globe ...
What is the worst that can happen if you shake it up? You don't reconcile? Well you wouldn't be shaking it up if there was a chance of that happening anyway ... so as I said, what is the worst that can happen (queue Dr Pepper music)?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
