DBD I agree with P. All of it. Your H is being a bully, like I said, and it is very low to use money that goes for your kids as punishment for not communicating with him. Can the 2 of you sit down with a mediator (cheaper) or your L to draft a 50/50 parenting plan? And have you gone online to check out child support calculator for your state? hey I just thought of something--is collaborative D cheaper? that is probably why he is seeking it!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004