BTW, I know what you mean about the ring. Pi$$ed me off too. But eventually I got past it. I even took mine off for a couple of days but then thought "That's BS. I'm still married. And I'm behaving no better than she is if I stoop to those levels". So I still wear mine, and I am comfortable knowing that I am doing the right thing.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09