It does sound like a Sh*tty weekend. Why are you still interacting with him at all? You had to go to dinner with this guy that is sleeping with OW?
Maybe you think you need to keep the interactions going so that you can have a chance to save the M? I really think you should cut off all communication with your H, except what is needed for bills or the children.
Read carefully what Ready2Change wrote for you: He's telling you exactly how to stand up and set a boundary, WITHOUT being controlling or pursing. This is communication you need. Dinner with your H you don't need.
I read your post a couple of time, and you know I've been following your thread and thinking about you. Listen, it seems like you are still thinking about your H, what he thinks, how he is going to react. I understand that struggle, but you need to be thinking more about JanuaryGirl. Weekends are usually the worst (they are for me), so prepare for them.
I think he is treating you awful, with no respect. Hang in there, you can do this JG.
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