Swimming against the current - PH in piecing

[pearlharbr]

Well, there was a bit of anxiety about BF while I was gone. The first night he told me the server at work was being shut down at 9 so he could only work until then. I called him after 10 at the house and no answer. I immediately wondered where he was and what was going on. I waited another hour and called again, this time he was there. I started in on him saying I thought I could trust him while I was gone and at the first opportunity he wasn't where he said he would be. He told me they didn't shut the server down for another hour so he just stayed at work until that happened and came straight home. He asked if I wanted him to call me from work before he left then from home when he got there. No, I decided that was just too much plus I didn't want him to be calling and just leaving messages since I planned on being out late for the rest of the trip. So I let it go. Just had to remind myself that whatever was going to happen would happen and I would deal with it then, no good in worrying.

Yes, BF has said that he is willing to move to SF. But I have to get a good enough job to support both of us so I can be working while he is looking for a new job. His company doesn't do any business in the Bay Area so transferring is not an option for him.

Not off to a good start. Worked out this morning and have been stuck on the computer ever since. Time to get offline and get busy!