Thanks for your input FIB. One friend said don't push her. Another said give her 2 weeks until I ask so it doesn't look like I'm desperate.

I try to look at W side. It has to be awkward, saying all the typical things they all do when they leave and then say they want to come back and try.

Retrouvaille isn't an option here. That's why I wondered about MC since she mentioned it. Did anybody have success with MC?