I somewhat agree, I posted in newcomers for advice on Wednesday's MC session and got some responses. I will post on it tonight to kick it up to the top again for other perspectives.
I feel like a lot of people on these boards are more "hostile" towards their WAS and as we have discussed, I don't think that is the right attitude. I think the actions discussed are correct but you have to keep a loving attitude towards the spouse, otherwise what is the point? Maybe the positive attitude has turned others away from our sitch's.
I hope and pray that I am a success story someday and people can look back and see a different approach. Off to the L office. Ltr.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.