I did notice something curious. When WH came back from giving S a bath, his eyes were totally red like he'd been crying! Wonder why?
Did you not ask him about that? I think I would have taken the opportunity for a little TLC if it was going that way - concern, compassion and understanding given you sitch. Not sure what the others think?
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Oh and I've been meaning to add that I don't think WH thinks of the A as an A since we are seperated (although legally married). His relationship with her started when we were married though!
He may well do. Doesn't alter the fact it has all the signs of an A so should be treated like one. I also still don't think he's all the way in and convinced of it. Just my 2p worth.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
