New Year, New Thread, NEW ME!

[CityGirl]

I said what I said on your thread as I feel I put lots of effort into your situation and nothing changes. I think you are making a huge mistake but what I think doesn't matter as it is your life. It's not about being "hardcore", it's about acceptance.

You are correct, professionally I have had a lot of success in my life. Monetarily I have had lots of success in my life, H and I both have, as we are both very hard workers when it comes to our careers. The success I will find now came from lots of internal work and the realization I deserve better than a cheating and lying husband.

My husband does not want to be with me now or ever. He has chosen a life without me just like your W has. The difference is I am not going to wait around and see what happens. Hardcore? I don't think so. It's what people do.

When I see something of substance you are doing to better yourself then we can joke around. While I see you were not trying to be mean about the tangible things I am doing to make the BEST life for ME it certainly was a very inappropriate comment to make seeing how far behind you are. Hey, I might crash and burn in school but at least I am trying *something*. If I fail then you can laugh all you want.