New Year, New Thread, NEW ME!

[CityGirl]

Please don't litter my thread with your smart ass answers. Don't act all "big shot" and make a rude comment then take it off and say "pointless".

At least I attempted to back up my points with you. Don't come on my thread and be an ass hole. I mean it.

[K4D]

If you notice, I chose to go back and edit it out as a pointless statement. But originally when I put it in, I was trying to be funny based off what you posted on my thread. It was meant as a joke. But then I didn't know how it would be taken, so I chose to edit it back out.

Kevin

[CityGirl]

I did notice and it was pointless. Look, I wished you well because I feel like any contribution I try and offer you falls on deaf ears.

We could keep going round and round but as you say, it's pointless.

I don't think you are funny at all. What you wrote was very rude.

[K4D]

I'm sorry, I didn't intend for it to be rude. I was really just trying to be funny based off what you had said to me on mine. It seriously was meant as just a joke. But I questioned how it might be taken after I wrote it which is why I edited it back out.

I think you are doing well in achieving your goals. You are very hardcore and I think that is to your benefit in having success in life.

Kevin

[TrentC]

No, he's going to edit his remark and run away.

[K4D]

No, he's going to edit his remark and run away.

Not running away. I tried to edit it right after I posted it and didn't realize CG had already read it, so I explained the situation.

Kevin

[TrentC]

I didn't see the comment.

I just saw your reason for editing it, and you have a knack for avoiding confrontation when you know you're in the wrong as "pointless".

[CityGirl]

I said what I said on your thread as I feel I put lots of effort into your situation and nothing changes. I think you are making a huge mistake but what I think doesn't matter as it is your life. It's not about being "hardcore", it's about acceptance.

You are correct, professionally I have had a lot of success in my life. Monetarily I have had lots of success in my life, H and I both have, as we are both very hard workers when it comes to our careers. The success I will find now came from lots of internal work and the realization I deserve better than a cheating and lying husband.

My husband does not want to be with me now or ever. He has chosen a life without me just like your W has. The difference is I am not going to wait around and see what happens. Hardcore? I don't think so. It's what people do.

When I see something of substance you are doing to better yourself then we can joke around. While I see you were not trying to be mean about the tangible things I am doing to make the BEST life for ME it certainly was a very inappropriate comment to make seeing how far behind you are. Hey, I might crash and burn in school but at least I am trying *something*. If I fail then you can laugh all you want.

[Drew]

CG,

I applaud you moving forward with your life!!!!

[K4D]

I would never laugh at you for failing. I think it is great that you are taking your shot at school again for something you enjoy. I am all for it if it is what you want to do. And if you fail, which I don't think you will, but if you do, I will actually feel bad for you because I know it was a goal that you were taking seriously.

I give my full support on it and I am looking forward to seeing how it goes for you.

Kevin