Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

Thank you Gnosis. I am learning form SC's threads and a few she references in her threads. I want to be better prepared when I come back, but I do not want anyone to think that I am abandoning this effort. I will crawl through hell and back and endure any pain necessary to save my M with my wife. Until the A I was responsible for about 90% of the marriage breakdown and it is up to me to fix it.

Thank you for all your help and I will continue to research so that I may love and live better for and with my wife.