Originally Posted By: missherlove
I know these things don't go according to script but if she admits that she screwed up last Saturday, and also wants a R with D13. Should I suggest that she stop Dating, Going Out to Bars etc. b/c it is damaging R with D13, me and family? or would I be pushing it.


She's an adult. She's capable of making her own decisions and her own mistakes.

And she won't brook any "advice" or criticism from you at this point. If anything, let one of the ICs bring it up.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."