I know these things don't go according to script but if she admits that she screwed up last Saturday, and also wants a R with D13. Should I suggest that she stop Dating, Going Out to Bars etc. b/c it is damaging R with D13, me and family? or would I be pushing it.
I really don't want to hash the past with her, I am in a place that I don't need apologies or a forensic of what happened, but want to focus on the now and the immediate future, say no more than 2 weeks at a time. I feel this time in MC (1 hr.) is critical and I want to make the most of it.
Also, at the end should I ask for another session in a week or 2, I think my IC will ask anyhow, but if not should I or should I see if she will?


Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison