DB works and then I become a WAS?

[LolaL]

That's actually pretty typical. A new person with a new perspective, and you are having butterflies.

But, if you have agreed to give it your all for your marriage, then you have to follow through. You made a commitment to your wife. You may feel like a teenager, but you are not one...you are an adult. With being an adult comes responsibilities that teenagers don't have.

And the fact is, even if you do decide to go with this new woman, eventually the newness will wear off. We are all only human, fabulously flawed, and nothing is always perfect all the time. What are you going to do when that happens...walk away from the new woman?

Stick with your wife. Go to counseling. Remember the things about her that made you fall in love with her in the first place. Try to plan a romantic evening, something both of you will enjoy.

And get your head out of your a$$. You are doing to your wife the same thing she did to you...and it hurt you. Why in the world would you want to turn around and do it to someone else?

Sorry, just a little sharpness to Lola...