Clinging - Sorry to hear about everything going on with you. I am glad you have stopped snooping. It is very hard to do, but once you get used to it, it is very liberating. I want to say I agree with mishka on the idea that you need some time by yourself out of a relationship. Take some time to learn about you after everything happens. Learn to be ok just you because then when you do get in a new relationship it will be fulfilling instead of a necessity.
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