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[gutwrenching]

Lost - the boundary was no contact whatsoever or else I tell OM's W...no phone calls, no e-mails, no texts, nothing. A couple of days later, I had to re-iterate that boundary included facebook and said I wanted her to block him from viewing her stuff and vice versa.

My gut tells me they are e-mailing and probably chatting with Yahoo instant messenger, Google talk or Skype.

I do know they aren't using our phone. After about 500 minutes of talking last month, she is at 13 minutes about half way thru the next billing cycle and those mintes are all to me! HA! I can at least get satisfaction from that. One of these days I have to approach her about reducing the number of minutes on our plan to save of us money, cause we sure as heck don't need that many minutes any more!

THANKS for confirming what I was thinking. I think she knows I didn't see anything or else she would have been much more "loving" to me last night to try to get it out of me...that's what happened the last 2 times she thought I saw something (and one of the two times I did). But hopefully I'm making her think twice...

It is WAY TOO EASY to be secretive these days.