Question,

W and I have a lot of assets 100+k paid for assets in my business, 1 6200 sq ft house, 1 1300 sq ft house with pole building, 19 vacant lots and a 30 acre chunk of land with 1/4 mile of river frontage. She is all fired up that we need to get everything sold so that we can move on with our lives. In reality, this would take many years to get rid of all our stuff (unless we fire sale it with auction and take a real beating)and we really can't move on until we at least pay back 1/2 million to bank. Should I facilitate the arrangements with realtors, appraisors, ect.? I don't think selling or divorce is right decision so I feel like just letting her proceed whatever way she wants, I'm just not going to help.


me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months