Complicated Sitch (Aren't they all?)

[soleil]

he said I was being "cruel" by moving on so quickly. That it was obvious that I wanted out of the marriage.

You didn't file for D, he did. Let he know that.

I say if you want to keep seeing him, then do.

[MacLyn]

Just spent my last weekend (for now) with my husband. Divorce is final on Friday and I am going to pull away. He needs to decide what he wants to do and pursue me now....if that is what he decides.

Said something interesting in an intimate moment this past weekend. He said it feels like we should be together. Then said this situation is FUBAR and started crying.

Of course he was drinking...