Praying for Light at the end of the Tunnel

[kjensen]

Thanks Virginia. It was quite the weird reaction, wasn't it? But I do think I see it for what it is

The ironic thing is if you look on Craigslist for rental in our area there are quite a lot of pretty decent choices! I am aware that in our first separation( a year ago) I was helping him way too much and this was used against me later as evidence that I was controlling/mothering...

I do keep telling him that he'll figure it out and in general, keep my mouth shut about my opinion. I did fall into that treating him as a friend, sharing my opinion, too easily since he was acting more 'normal'...will need to watch myself more carefully I think since he is still spinning/angry/conflicted.

Thanks for your kind, supportive words.