We have done this Joint Counseling Session before where there are 4 people, ME, My W, her IC , and My IC. My wife lied through her teeth to all of us about not dating during the separation.
Did you have proof that she was lying, and call her on it?
Originally Posted By: missherlove
So any commitments gained on Wednesday will be taken into context that she is habitually lying. I am not sure what her counselor will say, I am prepared to throw the bible at her though if her IC says it is okay to date b/c we are separated.
You can't guilt a WAS into staying or remaining faithful. Christians have affairs and get divorced just like everybody else. You don't think that she knows that she's going against her beliefs?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
