Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

Checking in after taking the weekend off of talking about WAH.

Had stupid drama from him of course on Sat. I'm really tired of it. It was all over the kids' exchange. He's letting all the planning go through them and not clearing it with me. It was my weekend and he made plans to take them to a ball game that evening. I put my foot down and said no since it was my weekend and he didn't clear it with me. He says I emotionally manipulated them into not going and missing a nice game with their cousin and it was planned months ago. They only wanted to go see their school sing the national anthem at halftime they told me. D was at a horse show on Sat that lasted all day anyhow!

Well, again the man is using money as a weapon. He had promised to pay for D's horse show fees and training for the weekend of competition and now since plans changed, he's changing plans on paying for it and is sticking me with the bill. He said I'm using his money anyway.

He's so obsessed with using money as a weapon! He also said that I should be acknowledging his emails and then he'd "bother" to coordinate with me. He's such a childish and selfish man. Okay, I'm approaching DISGUST.