How much do you know about the MC or her individual counselor? I ask because IMO it seems if you have three C there and they all do not practice the same kind of C'ing (solutions based) then you might have a disaster. Do all the C use the same approach?
I have never been in a situation like that so I really am not sure. I do know my H went to 3 counseling sessions due to his guilt. His C told him that his happiness must come first and if his happiness was with OW he should not feel guilt. If he does feel guilt saying he is sorry is all he needs to do and she validated all his choices and told him some people (in this case I was "some people") simply choose not to listen to loud cries of help from their spouse. I would have not believed this unless I heard it with my own two ears (I did from the C, not my H).
I basically told her that I would not contribute or even listen to such crap, especially when my H lied to his own C up and down (or maybe he didn't lie per say but he didn't give her a very accurate picture of himself or me for that matter - he never told her he left due to my illness, he said he didn't think it was worth mentioning!). Only my H could find a C that would blame me, lol!
I hope it all works out. I would just try and find out if all the C use the same approach or not.
