Also, Wife knows she does not need to be seeking R with men, b/c she is co-dependent. Do I ask to her to work on M or not. My IC said it is okay to tell how seeing her do this stuff is painful to me and destroying R with D13.
You're going into a marriage counseling session, right?
Seems like an excellent time to discuss the relationship to me.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement