Originally Posted By: mindfull
I've thought about this, and you are right.

I don't take pleasure in it.

Originally Posted By: mindfull
I think I just need to identify when the time is right.

Yes, for some boundaries. For others you need to nip them in the bud as they happen.

Originally Posted By: mindfull
And, truthfully, its not all that often, but when it does, I could just punch him!

I believe you. I know it's NOT easy.