I think I just need to identify when the time is right. When he's being a jerk because of work/lack of sleep, etc... is not the right time. It will just blow up. And, truthfully, its not all that often, but when it does, I could just punch him!
Also, I couldn't have the boundary discussion because we were awoken by the driver that was supposed to do most of his stuff this week (@ 2am), because his truck wouldn't start! So, H was off in the middle of the night to get it going.
I think I just need to go out, drink too much, and get the stink off! Ok, not really, but it sounded good.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.