One other thing about the separation between what happens and how you feel about it. It all originates in language, something I have emphasized here and throughout my life. So, what you feel is given by what you say about it. It is all in the language one uses (in what you say about what happens and how you feel about it).
Time to fix breakfast and take a conference call.
Later
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)