Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[Gnosis]

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Some things for you to work on then:

In the past, I didn't have the backbone to call her on those lies, and stretching of the truth.

Find your backbone. For yourself - you will have use for it much later. NOT NOW. To do this now is an exercise in futility.

and not confront her, as confrontation wasn't my strong point with her.

Become confrontational. Same conditions as above apply.

by not being consistent in my stance on her lies.

Become consistent.

I don't think she is CAPABLE of changing, as she doesn't realize what she is doing.

This is why your path is diverging from hers now. You're still mind-reading. You don't know what she is truly capable of. The past months experience has taught you this.

I am continuing to travel this roller coaster.

You can do that... or you can choose to detach.