mmmmmmmm we have so much snow here in the uk at the moment maybe ex gave son his old clothing so he could dress a snowman up, on another note, nobody has heard from ex since the above happened, neither son or I and neither his old aunt, he went and picked her off the floor 1st january, an 84 years old disabled person, housebound and he hasnt even contacted her to see if she as food or is warm or anything, and the weather is really poor in the uk at the moment it is a time when he should be checking on his only relatives, but no he appears to have run back into his hole, oh dear but nevermind