I guess I am in the same boat, some days I think I am strong enough to carry on and other days I am not. I too, have to make those choices, whether to wait until he decides to go to this other women, or tough love it....it is so hard for me especially when he is living 5 minutes from where I live...
I try not to call, but calling always wins...I am sure though you will make the right choice, and you sound like a very STRONG person...
I to need to be less available to my H, which like I said is so hard for me, I would also like to be my old self again and look great the way I use to
I also hope you have a great day, and thank you so much for your story and the many other people, in days that I feel crappy they help me in so many ways....thank you