Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Gnosis,

The trust thing is HUGE for me. In the past, I didn't have the backbone to call her on those lies, and stretching of the truth. Instead, I would rationalize it and accept it as is, and not confront her, as confrontation wasn't my strong point with her.

I also let her off the hook when we were talking the 2 days we were together, by not being consistent in my stance on her lies.

I don't think she is CAPABLE of changing, as she doesn't realize what she is doing.

I am continuing to travel this roller coaster. I completely agree with you on me and my boys. THAT is what is most important.