Help w MLC / WAW... Jack 3 Beans?

[kjensen]

Cat has some great points I would add that when you can transform the anger you (understandably)feel into compassionfor your W, you will understand how/why many of us stand through all of the BS of MLC.

Forgiveness and compassion are key to any chance of saving these marriages and they don't come easily. It takes some real internal work, but the rewards are for YOU.

This is a long process. Its easy in the beginning to hope you are the exception, to fall back in the mindset of this is just infidelity and not truly understand the different animal MLC is. So as Cat said, learn all you can about MLC and it may help you not take 'the script", the lies, the irrationality so personally.

In the MLC archives are links to some great info...if you haven't checked them out, I would.

As far as the weekend..decide what you are comfortable with, let things progress naturally and go from there. If sex was an issue, then reconnecting through sex may be a good thing-only you will know...

Hang in there!