indeed she is seeing me leaving, and it woke her up a bit.
she said that though he is just a friend and there were no sexual relations she is cutting off ties with him today. I was planning on getting a PI... because if this thing goes to divorce I want data. but now with her saying that.. I'm not sure.
she still was trying to drag me in to R talks and I just kept repeating the same thing. "I would love nothing more than to have a relationship with you and for us to be a family"... then she'd twist my words and all this stuff, saying how she'd just go back to doing what she did before (laying guilt on me for taking away her new life)... I validated, and also validated that I realized our sex life sucked and how if given the opportunity I would make it my job to satisfy her (not sure that was keeping distance). I don't know--- I'm still emotionally keeping my distance but at the same time you can't be all Heisman-- right? Isn't the end goal reconnecting?
who here thinks if she wants to come down for the weekend, and if she wants "it" should I give it up? would it be better to try and continue reconnecting without allowing the sex to come in? or should we go at it.. I'm favoring the latter
