well you get 9 mths to get your head around it, but not sure anyone actually is aware of the life changing affects having a baby has on their life. Maybe this note of caution isn't nec. but sorry I have to say it. I don't want to put a damper on the proceedings or your excitement at trying, apologies in advance if you think my caution is negative-certainly not meant to be. Please please thought don't think having a baby will be a quick fix for your relationship or bf's depressive tendancies. You could end up being sole parent in many ways on many occassions. I know you are worried about the age thing but don't rush at it unless you are both 100% certain this is what you both want and for all the right reasons. That being said a baby brings so much joy along with sleepless nights,worry and a never ending drain on your resources, BUT I am sure none of us parents would be without them, and that says it all. Robs posts brought back many memories of my H's view of the test,also the timing of them,not always conducive to feeling "up" for it if you get my drift. Good luck anyway both of you, maybe b/f more than you at the mo.This will test his devotion to you that's for sure-lol. S
