Sorry to hear that there is an OM. I think this is the first post about that. Remember OM=NM. You will be hurting now and detaching, GAL, just basic DB'ing is very important.
YOU MUST TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST!!!!!
Next comes your kids. Kind of like on the airplane when you put your Oxygen mask on first, then take care of them.
After that stop worrying about your W, she is out of your control. Let her go and let her spin. Remember to believe nothing of what she says and 50% of what she does. She is going to try to get you back. Keep your distance. This is all script.
