update. I sent her a text sat morning two days ago. "I agree with you the marriage is over. there is no reason to try to fix what can't be fixed. I know about your other men."
She replied "what other men? wtf u talking about?"
i waited several hour to let her stew. then i called her. told her i was done and when she sent me the divorce papers i would sign them.
she denied having a boyfreind and that she was going to florida to meet an old freind. I told her i don't trust her anymore.
She asked what do i really want? I told her i would really like her to give me a chance and that our old marriage is over and we need to start a new one.
She said she would like that. I told her it had been hard for me over the holidays and she agreed. I commented on how It has diffucult to find one gift for her for christmas but at least it wasn't car parts. she laughed.
she suggested we have a date night when she got back. I told her i loved her and she said she had been waiting months to hear that. since i started Dbing i have been NC which she said hurt her and that she thought i didn't love her anymore because i didn't say i loved her.
I want this to work. she said she would make time to call me on her trip so time will tell.
I sent her a text this morning about having a safe flight. she said thanks and she would let me know when she landed.
