I am too paranoid for my own good; (of course, that is what happens when you are constantly waiting for the ax to fall.)

Turns out he wanted to celebrate his first non-smoking day. We had a very nice meal out. He did bring up a small R talk when he said "What were we talking about last night? ...Oh yeah, that I need to get my head clear." I said I supported him in doing that. He was very flirty.

@Dom, you are right that it is good that he is wanting to man up-- but he's been saying that since October, so.... LOL

@Kalni- yeah, I guess he can't "dump" me...what do you call it when you move out of limbo to divorce?

I have been reading dday101798's piecing story..interesting that in his opinion, he thought a divorce was a clean slate and necessary. And he's the LBS.....


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing