I am too paranoid for my own good; (of course, that is what happens when you are constantly waiting for the ax to fall.)
Turns out he wanted to celebrate his first non-smoking day. We had a very nice meal out. He did bring up a small R talk when he said "What were we talking about last night? ...Oh yeah, that I need to get my head clear." I said I supported him in doing that. He was very flirty.
@Dom, you are right that it is good that he is wanting to man up-- but he's been saying that since October, so.... LOL
@Kalni- yeah, I guess he can't "dump" me...what do you call it when you move out of limbo to divorce?
I have been reading dday101798's piecing story..interesting that in his opinion, he thought a divorce was a clean slate and necessary. And he's the LBS.....
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing