I would have some pithy -- or at least bitchy -- things to say about all this, but she's been so hither-and-yon that it will probably all change next week. Too late to salvage your adjunct position, although that may be just as well considering the unavoidable high levels of instability and Themselves-traumatizing that seem to be prevailing at the moment.

Where are you with the legal end of all this? Does CA have mechanisms for (official) interim parenting agreements and things of that nature as regards custody while the divorce is in process?

Watch out for that jibe....


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