GIMA, it's unanimous so far = YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DISNEY WITH HER AND STAYING WITH YOUR IN=LAWS BECAUSE SHE SERVED YOU DIVORCE PAPERS!!!!! It's not about the money, it's about the gall she has. That is unbelievable really. You are too sweet a person here - time to Tough Love her to death!
As for letting your son down - how about this - YOU TAKE YOUR KIDS TO DISNEY and she is not invited. SHE IS NOT INVITED BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE ON HER OWN. Then your kids don't have to suffer because she is being selfish and splitting up your M.
I'm sorry this makes me so angry to hear that she could slap such a nice person with D papers and then insist you stay at her inlaws for a vacation? THAT IS AS CRAZY AS IT SOUNDS. GRRRRR!!!!
