Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Thinking it through, I think I'm going to let it go. Can't see much good bringing up the fact she jumped when she didn't hear me coming and then I'd end up looking like I was too concerned about what she is doing on the computer. And I probably did some good making her shake in her boots a little...make her a little uncomfortable at the house if she is doing something shady. And it could be nothing. Got to admit, if she were to walk in on me right now in the middle of this, I'd be clicking to shut it down too, not because I'm doing anything wrong, just she doesn't need to know about this.
I did see something I didn't like, saw the the OM's number still loaded in Skype. Again, saying something about it, not sure what good that would do; I'm positive she would delete it if I asked. But, I'm sure she has it memorized (hell I do, I saw it so many times on the phone bill). It is also still loaded under contacts in her cell phone which she gives me open access too...again, she probably has it memorized.
The evil part of was very tempted to click a couple of times and block access to OMs number in Skype...but I didn't.
And I was able to see how much a credit balance is on the Skype account...so if the balance ever goes down, well then I will know something (currently $11.27--writing here as a journal entry for future reference).
Will post how today went later...still a bit of the evening to get thru and given her jumping at me walking in, could be a little interesting. So far tonight, very helpful...I would say it was as if she suddenly realized she isn't doing her fair share and is trying hard to share the workload in the house.