mo3,
Originally Posted By: motherof3
And I agree with the others. Her loss.
Thanks. Your comment reminds me of a favorite, very old Doonesbury strip:

1st Panel: The Rev. Scott Sloane (campus chaplain) is sitting at a cafe table with another main character, Joan, Jr. (?), whom he's been dating (and is the first woman he's ever dated.)

Joan: "Scott, we need to talk." Scott's thought bubble: ("Uh-oh")

2nd Panel: Joan: "I've been doing some serious thinking about our relationship..." Scott's thought bubble: ("Here it comes")

Third panel: Joan: "And I just think we're not growing and should probably move on..."

Scott's frantic thought bubble: (Don't let her get away! Say something! Say anything! C'mon Scott. Think, man, think!

Last Panel: Joan has left.
Scott: Alone at the table (after desperately thinking for a response): "Your loss, toots!!"

Anyway, even without the visual, I always thought it was a hoot.


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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