Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

[TooLateForMe]

I had an adverse reaction the last reconciliation. The first night was bliss. Immediately after I was angry and shocked, which I had denied myself while separated. BE HONEST WITH HER!!!

Tell her what you are feeling! Deal with the negative emotions because they will pass, they're normal. Rs are built and love isn't always glaring you in the face and throbbing in the groin. I wish I had sucked it up for a while and made the extra effort to fix things despite my pain from her rejections. I don't have that option any more. We all pretend that the worst thing that can happen is to try and lose, but it's far worse to lose because you DIDN'T TRY AT ALL.

DB, act as if, do 180s even if you don't feel like it. Because if she's making the effort too, things will begin to mesh again.