Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

CityGirl,

Yes, when I M my W I was already in the Army.

I'm not looking for a reason, or explanation for her, rather, I was merely speculating as to why she was doing what she was doing.

In the past I didn't acknowledge the stress and pain she was in because of my deployments, and I think that contributed as well.

I care about what she is doing, as I don't want to be put in this position in the future, wether it is with my W, or anyone else. I want to learn from what is happening to us, and not make the same mistakes ever again.