Originally Posted By: luvless


H did not call yesterday evening nor has he called or text at all today. This is very out of character for him - he is just being very nasty - it's so disappointing.

I have felt very sad and alone today. A friend came and we had an early lunch then another come with her kids and we made dinner. I still I find myself with an aching pain that doesn't stop.

Thanks for all the hugs - much needed hugs



No expectations will leave you with no disappointments,, sounds like your going out and doing things and letting him tag along in your mind for free...

That was my hardest part of GALing/ detatching... it gets easier,, a trick I found was to find something I really enthusiastically wanted to do, that gets the mind busy and focused elsewhere... Not a one size fits all but when I found out a new work out routine program, I bought off into it 110%,, kept my mind busy and got in waaay better shape, better now at 46 than at 33,,,

Last edited by DDogs; 01/11/10 05:29 AM.

DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09