Alright. I read the first part of Dane's thread. I am committed to not blowing this.
@ PDT - I can definitely "fake it". We are limited to no contact. I have gone dark.
@ Deep - I started working on myself as soon as she left. I have lost 30 pounds running and working out. I have connected with family and friends. I am going to IC to work on the issues I caused in the marriage. I have definitely validated her in marriage counselling. I have owned all the blame she has thrown at me. This does justify her actions and ease her guilt.
