I feel, that if she came completely clean, and admitted to what she has done in counseling, that we could somehow work through this crap. But, how does one convey that to WAS when WAS wants nothing to do with LBS?
Time. It will take time, most of all. Like I said, neither of you are in a place for that to happen yet.
I'm not saying you should wait for her, but just be open to the opportunity if it is provided to you.
So I wouldn't worry about it right now. Just deal with the spew and the anger as best you can.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement