Tonight we had MIL over for dinner. After dinner W was bringing MIL home. Knowing when she got back she would be helping son with Homework I went ahead and rinsed the dinner dishes and pans. (W has a way of putting them in the dishwasher and does not like the way I do it)Anyway when she got home first thing she said was "did you do the dishes" she was joking because she was not in the kitchen yet. I did not say anything... When she did get there she said "YOU did do the dishes... Halleluiah that is great"
What I mean by the fog lifting. There was a point back when I believe w was trying to prove to herself that she did not need or want my help. (Possibly need me either) when I did try to help she would get upset and say "just leave them alone I will do them" or when I asked to help she always decline my offer...
Ok now for some sad news...
A San Francisco Police officer that lived in my town found out his wife was having an affair and committed suicide last week. He had two small kids. I did not know him but I wish I could have talked with him. I can honestly say I know how he felt.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
