Wow... thank you all.

I am so glad that all of the experts have come by the thread. I am just reading Dane's thread (read it before but now with a different light) and will be back to post further comments.

I'm not going to deny. I'm not a fool. Like I said, the writing is on the wall. (locked phone, removed online cell bill, 3 divorcing cheating friends, 2 am 1 hour phone calls, planning vacation to instantly moving out, not being able to sleep unless I was beside her to 6 weeks of limited contact). Somebody is supporting her big-time! And judging by things in the bedroom, I'm betting this is more than physical. My god, I gave her my credit card for a hotel to stay at the night she moved out.

Have I caused huge damage waiting 6 weeks since her moving out to get on this?