That was my theory as to how this got started.

A lot of military families have suffered from extended deployments and the like.

So remind me -- what was the first clue that something was wrong in your relationship? Not just the usual "I love you, I miss you, why can't you come home" stuff, but something that was said or done that made you go "hey, something isn't right here"?

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."