What goes up, must come down... H texted me tonight saring what he did during the day and asking about mine..said he'd drove around with his cousin looking for apartments. Nothing near where me and the kids/school is..
I asked if he had checked Craigslist and he got angry and said he had to go..I was very confused(why would anyone get angry at the suggestion of looking at craigslist for rental ads??am I missing something?)and asked if he was angry at me..he responded
"Hard for me to take you redecorating the property we bought together while you suggest craiglist to me."
So I replied that I thought craigslist was just like newspaper ads and I was sorry if I offended him...although I really wanted to say(but DIDN't!)...WTF- you left me..the only redecorating I am doing is looking at paint(which he wanted) for the family room...and I put up pictures we already had...that is it. Lots of "redecorating" going on here!! I did not defend. Just apologized... Whew!
My guess is he is mad about where he is. I sure don't miss the anger. Just when I think its dying down, I get some more. At least texting anger is better than yelling in your face anger!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.